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Stop wasting money on clothes that won’t last. ✨

This reel went viral because it wasn’t about Zara — it was about shopping smarter.

These pieces might be long gone from stores, but here are the timeless lessons that apply every time you shop 👇

✨ Fabrics matter — look for 50%+ natural fibers for pieces that hold up.
✨ Small updates (like a vest) instantly modernize your wardrobe.
✨ Skip polyethylene shoes — they’re basically plastic and won’t last.
✨ Choose tones within the same color family — it instantly looks more expensive and gives that timeless, old-money feel.

These tips will help you avoid costly mistakes and build a wardrobe that actually works for you.

Because the goal isn’t to buy more — it’s to shop with intention. 🛍

📌 Save this for your next shopping trip.

#personalstylist #shopwithintention #styletips #wardrobeessentials #styleover40 #momstyle #smartshopping #intentionalstyle #shoppingtips #capsulecloset #sustainablefashion #styleconfidence #everydaystyle #elevatedbasics #wardrobestylist

Your closet is NOT a storage facility! ❌ Be ver

Your closet is NOT a storage facility! ❌

Be very selective with what you allow into your precious space. Like everything in life DO NOT SETTLE.

It’s better to have fewer pieces that you LOVE & WEAR than a closet filled with nostalgia, chaos & clutter.

Decluttering on a regular basis (once a season) will help you see the items that are serving you as well as identify the gaps — which will take all the frustration out of getting dressed.

STEP 1 👇👇👇

Pull every item out of your closet by category. start with jeans, the foundation of your wardrobe. one section at a time will prevent you from feeling overwhelmed.

if you’re having trouble letting go, try the items on in front of a full length mirror ask yourself the following QS: (works every time!) it will help you be more decisive and declutter with ease.

STEP 2 👇👇👇

1️⃣ Does it fit
2️⃣ Do I feel confident in this item
3️⃣ Can I pair it in 3 different ways
4️⃣ Is it authentic to who I am today
5️⃣ Have I worn it in 18 months +
6️⃣ What is the condition (stained, rips, pilling, faded colour, etc)

You deserve to walk into that closet and be able wear EVERY piece in it — with confidence!

💌 Comment “Guide” for my FREE closet edit guide (that I use with every client for 10+ yrs) sent straight to your DMs!

#closetdeclutter #wardrobeedit #closetreset #shopwithintention #minimalstyle #consciousshopping #styletipsdaily #over40style #chicmomstyle #stylistsecrets #stylehelp #everydaystyle #capsulecloset #classicstyle #effortlessstyle

What I’d actually buy at @massimodutti as a body

What I’d actually buy at @massimodutti as a body shape stylist ✨

Starting with this modern take on the white button-down — a wrap detail with gold hardware that flatters almost ALL body types. I also found designer-looking shoes, luxe wools, and a spectacular leather jacket!

These aren’t trends — they’re timeless investments you’ll wear for years.

All links can be found in shop my store (link in bio)

Which is your favourite pick! 👇🥰

#whatIwouldbuy #massimodutti #personalstylist #oldmoneystyle #wardrobestaples #elevatedbasics #timelessstyle #neutralstyle #momstyle #styleover40 #minimalstyle #elevatedstyle #stylehacks #styletips #chicstyle

Ever feel like your outfit looks great… but stil

Ever feel like your outfit looks great… but still feels off?

That’s because without accessories, you’re only half dressed. ✨

Belts, jewelry, scarves, sunglasses, or even a fun bag / shoe — they’re the finishing touch that injects personality and make your look fully complete.

📌 Save this tip: Before you leave the house, do a quick mirror check. If your outfit feels like it’s missing something → add an accessory. ✔️

👉 Comment BELT and I’ll send you my favorite staple picks that will work with every outfit! (Start with black + earth-tone colours)

Ilana:
Full look @aritzia

Renata:
Jeans @levis
Top @zara
Shoes @hm
Belt @aritzia

#StyleTipsForWomen #WardrobeTips #ClosetConfidence #StyleConfidence #BodyShapeStylist #EffortlessStyle #MomStyle #StyleOver40 #ElevatedBasics #TimelessStyle #AccessoriesMatter #FinishingTouch #AritziaStyle #OOTDInspo #WardrobeStylist

✨ A little story time… In 2014, I began with

✨ A little story time…

In 2014, I began with small speaking engagements in my community on how to dress for your shape. I thought a handful of women would come… but over 100 showed up to my very first talk, and afterwards I had lineups out the door asking for 1:1 help.

In those early days, I was surrounded by women whose weight had fluctuated, whose bodies felt unfamiliar, and whose confidence had dropped. They didn’t know how to dress themselves anymore — and I knew I wanted to help change that.

That was the start of Can’t Help But Stare. From workshops to blog posts, local TV, magazine articles, fashion show hosting, and thousands of incredible clients styled — I’ve loved every second of it.

And now, 11 years later, I get to share everything I’ve learned with 77,000 of you right here. ✨

Because your body is already beautiful. You just need the clothes that show it. 💫

👉 Want to learn more about working with me? Comment STYLE below and I’ll share the details. 🤍

#CantHelpButStare
#PersonalStylist #BodyShapeStylist #HourglassMethod
#ConfidenceThroughStyle #StyleConfidence #WardrobeConfidence
#StyleOver40 #MomStyleTips #MomStyleInspo
#WardrobeStylist

Daily Outfit Formula 👀 If your outfit ever fe

Daily Outfit Formula 👀

If your outfit ever feels “off,” try the Rule of Thirds:

✨Top + bottom + one intentional add-on.
✨Today I used a belt and statement earrings.

✨Bonus: 3+ pieces always look more polished.
✨For that minimal, neutral vibe → never go beyond 3 colors.

This is a sure-proof way to always look polished — giving you a fully finished, fully styled look every single time.

📌 Save this formula for the next time you get dressed.

Top @massimodutti
Jeans @frame
Shoes @lintervalle
Bag @madewell
Earrings @jcrew (10 yrs old!)
Belt @marshallscanada

#dailyoutfitformula #ruleofthirds #styletips #personalstylist #outfitformula #minimalstyle #wardrobestylist #styleover40 #momstyle #capsulewardrobe #neutraloutfit #effortlessstyle #elevatedbasics #classicstyle #styleconfidence

The last coat is my absolute FAVOURITE 👀 What

The last coat is my absolute FAVOURITE 👀

What I would buy at @mango part 2! Starting with a proportion tip, touching upon the importance of necklines, and finding items that look designer without the price tag (which happens to be my specialty! 🙋‍♀️)

Comment below with your favourite pick! 👇

#whatiwouldbuy #personalstylist #mangostyle #mangoclothing #mangofashion #wardrobestaples #intentionalshopping #capsulewardrobe #momstyle #styleover40 #elevatedbasics #timelessstyle #styletips #chicstyle #effortlessstyle

Comment “Classic” for links to this look! Whe

Comment “Classic” for links to this look!

When you’re in a rush or second-guessing your outfit, timeless staples are always the answer. Chic, polished, and never out of style. The tonal mix (creams + taupes) makes it instantly elevated.

Outfit Recipe 👇

✨ Trousers @aritzia
✨ Knit Cardigan (old)
✨ Vest @dynamiteclothing
✨ Tote @jcrew
✨ Elevated Flats @aldo_shoes

📌 Save this for the next time you’re getting dressed

#personalstylist #classicstyle #neutraloutfit #wardrobestaples #effortlessstyle #momstyle #styleover40 #elevatedbasics #timelessstyle #styletips

Last piece: FAVOURITE TEE of all time! What I’

Last piece: FAVOURITE TEE of all time!

What I’d buy at @uniqlo Starting with a proportion tip — because details matter.

A drop shoulder seam can make your frame look broader, the right seam instantly balances you out — these are the details I look for as a body shape stylist! ✨

📌 Save this for your next trip to @uniqlo

#uniqlostyle #whattobuy #wardrobestaples #hourglassmethod #shoppingwithintention #styletips #effortlessstyle #momstyle #personalstylist #canthelpbutstare

Expectation: polished fall layers ✨ Reality: Ada

Expectation: polished fall layers ✨
Reality: Adam Sandler chic 🥴

Pants @aritzia
Top @dynamiteclothing
Shoes @aldo_shoes
Bag @jcrew
Sweater (old)

#ootdfail #outfitreality #expectationvsreality #momlife #reallifevsinstagram #fallstyle #falloutfit #fallfashion #fallstyleinspo #autumnoutfits

Comment LINKS for all pieces featured sent straigh

Comment LINKS for all pieces featured sent straight to your DMs! 👇

What I Would Actually Buy at @aritzia (Part 2)

Six pieces that balance proportions, flatter your shape, and work hard in your closet. From pants that feel like pajamas but look polished, to a cropped blazer that highlights your waist, and a sweater coat that screams timeless chic — these are the staples you’ll wear season after season.

Save this 📌 for your next shopping trip — Which one would you take home first? 👀

#Aritzia #AritziaStyle #WardrobeStaples #ClosetEssentials #CapsuleWardrobe #FallStyle #BodyShapeStylist #StyleTipsForWomen #IntentionalStyle #CantHelpButStare

Your tummy isn’t the issue — the fabric is. So

Your tummy isn’t the issue — the fabric is.
Soft, stretchy denim highlights every curve. Rigid, structured denim locks & loads so you feel smooth and supported through the tummy. 👖✨

👉 Comment DENIM and I’ll send you my favorite affordable structured pairs that hold you in beautifully. (Including the pair Ilana is wearing)

Ilana:
Top and bottom @aritzia

Renata:
Top @zara
Bottom @levis
Shoes @hm
Belt @aritzia

#BodyShapeStylist #DenimTips #StyleTipsForWomen #ClosetConfidence #StylistApproved #WardrobeTips #CamouflageTummy #DenimGuide #StyleConfidence #FashionTipsForHer
#Aritzia #AritziaStyle #AritziaCommunity #AritziaOOTD